For the two of you
Dream together.
Do it together.
A private, shared bucket list app for you and your partner. Capture every dream, plan every adventure, and check them off — side by side, in real time.
Free to use · Private by design · Works on every device
How it works
Three steps to start dreaming together.
- Step 1
Create your shared space
Sign up and start a private space, then invite your partner with a single link.
- Step 2
Build lists together
Add dreams, trips, and date nights. Organize them into as many themed lists as you like.
- Step 3
Check them off side by side
Complete items together and watch your shared bucket list come to life in real time.
Everything you need, nothing you don’t
We kept it simple so you can focus on making memories.
Private & secure
Your bucket list stays between you and your partner. No one else can see your shared dreams.
Real-time sync
Add items, check them off, or leave notes — changes appear instantly for both of you.
Multiple lists
Organize by category — travel, food, experiences. Create as many lists as you dream up.
Notes, reactions & comments
Plan the details with rich notes, react with emojis, and chat about each item together.
Gentle reminders
Get a notification when your partner adds something new or checks a dream off the list.
Simple & beautiful
A clean, distraction-free space designed to help you focus on what matters most — together.
Frequently asked questions
Everything you need to know about building a shared bucket list together.
What is Our List?
Our List is a private, shared bucket list app for couples. You and your partner build bucket lists together — travel, food, adventures, date nights — and check items off side by side, with every change syncing in real time.
Is Our List free to use?
Yes. You can create a shared space, invite your partner, and build unlimited bucket lists together for free.
Is our bucket list private?
Completely. A shared space is visible only to you and the one partner you invite. No one else can see your lists or your dreams.
How does real-time syncing work?
When either partner adds an item, checks one off, reacts, or comments, the change appears instantly for both of you — no refresh needed. You always see the same up-to-date list.
Can we use Our List in a long-distance relationship?
Yes. Our List works on any device, anywhere, so long-distance couples can plan adventures and dream together from different cities or countries.
How do we get started together?
One partner signs up and creates a shared space, then sends the other a private invite link. Once your partner joins, you share one synced set of bucket lists.
Can I add notes, reactions, and comments to items?
Yes. Every item supports rich notes, emoji reactions, and threaded comments, so you can plan the details and react to each other's ideas in one place.
Can I install Our List on my phone?
Yes. Our List is a Progressive Web App, so you can install it to your home screen on iOS and Android and receive push notifications when your partner adds or completes something.
Start your shared bucket list today
Free to use. Invite your partner in seconds and start dreaming together.